Every day is a chance to care for yourself—one small step at a time.
Today's Sips and Scribbles: Solo Dates and Outings
Have you ever taken yourself out on a date? I’ve been doing it pretty regularly for the past year, and honestly, it’s been such a breath of fresh air. Just me, myself, and I no distractions, no expectations, just time to sit with my own thoughts and discover what I actually enjoy.
I try to plan at least four solo dates or outings (yep, they’re different!) each month. This month, I’m right on track with three dates and one outing.
First up: a night at the symphony. It was so relaxing. I got there a little early, grabbed a drink, and just gave myself time to breathe before the music started. No rushing, no stressing just soaking it all in.
For my second date, I hit up a new sports bar for happy hour. I sat right at the bar, ordered a drink, an appetizer, and then went all in with a sandwich and fries. Not only was the food great, but I also found a new spot with awesome happy hour deals. Definitely a win.
My third solo date happened on Independent Bookstore Day. I made a little adventure out of it: visited three new bookstores, grabbed lunch at one of my favorite spots, and finished the day with a glass of wine at another bookstore, listening to my audiobook. It was honestly perfect.
And for my solo outing? I was invited to a tasting event at a local taco restaurant. I went by myself, but once I got there, I ended up connecting with some great people. There was a time when I would’ve never shown up to something like that alone, but now? I’m just happy to be included. Showing up solo feels powerful.
The more time I spend alone, the more at home I feel with myself. And that’s a feeling I wouldn’t trade for anything.
Today’s Sips of Self-Care ☕️ Letting myself have experiences just for me.
Today’s Sips of Gratitude & Discovery ✍️ Thankful for the little moments of courage that turn into big moments of joy.